This is going to leave a mark…ouch

My wife is the most determined person I know. She isn’t stubborn. She’s determined. There is a difference.

People that are stubborn blindly hold on to something and are not willing to move in any direction. Think donkey. Donkeys are stubborn.

People that are determined have clear vision and are not swayed to the left or right. They focus in and push hard for the goal. They work like an ant to make things happen.

Araceli always uses these words: “I have to.” I’m not sure I understand what it means to be a “have to” person. I sure want to though.

She “has to” get up in the morning at 4am and go work out. She “has to” go to class. She “has to” pursue her master’s degree. She “has to” be a great teacher. She “has to” do everything she sets her mind to.

So, now I am determined to start savoring exercise (that is strange to even see me typing that sentence). I need an inciting incident. What is it going to be? How about this?

Many people will be counting on me. I am now part of a team and I have eight months to get ready. I “have to” start training now or there’s no way I can run 9.5 minute miles for about 6 miles…3 times.

I’m excited. What a crazy adventure I’m on! I’ve already decided to savor this…I have to!

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